A Genuine Love- Affair - by Madhushri Mukherjee
“Ja Didang Hridayang Taba
Ta Didang Hridayang Mama”
Connection between two individuals of opposite sex leading to romantic love is not just a modern day affair; the concept existed from times immemorial. Myth has many accounts of such alliances and the two lines above also give us an idea from the expression of love of olden times.
The lines above translates to:
“Where your heart is,
There rests my heart”
These lines are chanted during marriage ceremonies today but they are creations of yester years.
Love is what it is - beyond description, invisible, unattainable by effort, indestructible by force. It is the most cherished offspring of the mind - a feeling that binds different people in the same way.
Human relationship spread over a large area in fact covering each and every aspect of life in society. Just to name a few they are, Man - Woman, Parents – Children, Friends, Boss - Employee, Teacher – Student and so on. Among all of these a very special one is the man-woman relationship. It is not really fare to say that it is the most important relationship but yes, it is perhaps a relationship that gives identity to a person. It is a relationship that makes the man assert himself and make his own nest and become a father; while it is the relationship that brings motherhood to a woman and gives a powerful identity of wife and mother to complete the picture.
The million dollar question remains,” how to make the perfect marriage or meet the destined one”? There are various ways and means by which two people can meet and feel a certain attraction but there has to be distinction between a harmonic match and just attraction actually an infatuation. This can wear off with little time leaving the relationship dry and deserted.
In astrology, we can get great insight into the phenomenon where by there is clear indications. These are predominantly ascertained by planetary positions in the horoscope and by the natural significators or Karakas.
The natural governor of marriage and husband is planet Jupiter for a woman. The same role for marriage and wife is assigned to planet Venus for a man. Any weakness and affliction to any one of these planets can have a direct effect on the marriage scene in the following manner:
- Delay in marriage
- No marriage connection
- Multiple arranged alliances but no success
- Multiple love affairs but no stability to lead to marriage
- Wrong match
How does a planet in the Vedic sky affect life in this manner? Let us see how the planet Jupiter or Venus’s inadequacies affect this area of life.
When Jupiter is weak or afflicted the following are most common problems.
- Marriage delay
- Sometimes no marriage
- Wrong alliances
- Many unstable alliances
- Mistaken decisions in regard to marriage
- Selfish tendencies
- Unwise actions
- Subdued desires
- Hidden misdirected attractions
- Delay in childbirth
- Sometimes childlessness
When Venus is weak the following are felt by most:
- Marriage delay
- Wrong choice of partner
- Miseries in marriage
- Disharmony in the physical & mental relationship
- Problems in the reproductive system
- Unhealthy desire for unconventional partners
- Insatiable desire for gaining appreciation
- Inability to appreciate the finer aspects of love
- Incapable of knowing the unspoken massage between two hearts
- Immaturity
- Crankiness
The above are some of the most common troubles that are faced by people with weak Jupiter and Venus. In an existing relationship or marriage, these planets also hold a major position, if these planets are weak, life brinks on boredom and miseries. There is complete apathy between the two - the partners’ lack of physical and mental connection or concern swings the marital relations dangerously towards the reef.
Such a situation must never be left to its own motion. This is the ideal breeding ground for negative energy.
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